awww c'mon its not that bad really... ask me and ill tell u what i know lol... don't tell me xiv didn't confuse you when you started...
in eve you had to picture yourself as a captain/commander of a capital ship... captains don't drive their own ship... they give commands!!! ppl get demoralized when they didn't even know how to move their ship, thats why, in eve you had to have a point reference of where you wanna go... not like ff where you simply use wsad to move the char.
once you're comfortable with the movement controls everything else is simple and easy... especially if you already had mmo exp before...
don't let the spaceship controls and buttons scares you...